now in beta · sf first · more cities soon

stop swiping.
start dating.

tapdate is an AI agent that handles the entire talking stage. Set it. Forget it. Get a notification when your date is booked.

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TAPDATE · NOW
you have a date. 🗓
Sarah, 28 · Friday 7PM · Café Blue, SoMa
free to try · no card needed · your first date is on us
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the problem

dating apps
sell hope.
we sell dates.

The average person spends 5–10 hours per week swiping, messaging, getting ghosted. The ROI is nearly zero. tapdate ends the process entirely.

5–10h
spent per week on dating apps by the average single person
× dating app behavior studies · 2024
3%
of app matches result in a real-world date
× match group internal data
TAPDATE DELIVERS
1 tap.
That's all you do. Agent handles everything else — finding, messaging, building rapport, proposing the date, booking the venue.
40%+
of tapdate users get a date within 30 days of activating their agent
how it works

four steps.
one date.

The entire process from setup to confirmed date — automated. You just show up.

01
teach the agent
5 minutes. Tell it your vibe, interests, what you're looking for. Paste a few old texts. The agent learns to sound exactly like you.
02
connect platforms
Instagram, Hinge, Tinder, Bumble. The agent operates across every platform simultaneously, 24 hours a day.
03
agent works
Finds targets, sends openers, builds rapport, reads compatibility, proposes a date when the moment is right. You do nothing.
04
you get a date
Notification: "you have a date. friday 7pm." Pre-date brief included. Venue picked. All you do is show up.
tapdate vs everything else

not another
dating app.

every other app
sells hope
✗You swipe endlessly
✗You craft openers at 11pm
✗You get ghosted
✗You negotiate where to meet
✗You show up anxious and cold
✗Maybe, eventually, a date
tapdatedelivers dates
✓Agent finds and messages for you
✓Conversations run 24/7 automatically
✓Agent moves on — never gets discouraged
✓Venue selected and booked
✓Pre-date brief delivered 2h before
✓Confirmed date on your calendar.
built different

every detail.
obsessed over.

🧠
learns your voice
The agent analyzes your texting style from past conversations. Every message it sends sounds authentically like you — not generic AI.
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all platforms at once
Instagram, Hinge, Tinder, Bumble — simultaneously. The agent fishes every ocean while you live your actual life.
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compatibility scoring
Real-time analysis of every conversation. The agent proposes dates only when compatibility crosses the threshold. No awkward premature asks.
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pre-date brief
2 hours before your date — who she is, what you talked about, what to bring up, where to go. You arrive prepared, not cold.
🔄
gets smarter
Post-date ratings train the agent on what works for you specifically. After 5 dates it knows you better than you know yourself.
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your terms
Full Auto or Co-pilot mode. Pause anytime. The agent works within your preferences — your dealbreakers, your type, your timeline.
early users

they stopped
swiping.

★★★★★
“I've been on Hinge for 3 years. In 18 days of using tapdate I had 2 dates. I deleted Hinge.”
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Alex K.
Software engineer · SF
★★★★★
“I kept getting matches but freezing on what to say. tapdate handles the part I'm bad at. I just show up.”
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James L.
Founder · YC W24
★★★★★
“The pre-date brief is insane. I showed up knowing exactly what she wanted to talk about. It felt like a second date already.”
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Marcus T.
PM · Stripe
pricing

we only make
money when
you date.

No other dating product has ever said that.

Core
$29
/month
✓Agent on 2 platforms
✓20 active conversations
✓Co-pilot + Full Auto
✓Pre-date brief
—Unlimited conversations
—Date guarantee
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MOST POPULAR
Pro
$79
/month
✓All platforms simultaneously
✓Unlimited conversations
✓Full Auto only
✓Priority matching
✓Deep personality AI
✓Pre-date brief + venue
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Elite
$199
/month
✓Everything in Pro
✓Human oversight layer
✓White glove onboarding
✓Guaranteed date or refund
✓For when it has to work
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sf beta is live · your date is waiting

your date
is coming.

One tap. Your agent does the rest.
Real dates. Real people. On your calendar.

free to try · no card · your next date starts here
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